Embracing the Power of Writing: My Journey to Self-Reflection and Growth
Hello (anyone),
Do you ever feel like your thoughts are constantly racing, like a never-ending stream that consumes your mind and energy? If so, you're not alone. Growing up, my dad used to joke that I question, answer, defend, offend, and argue with myself regarding my own thoughts. It's funny how those childhood jokes can hold so much truth.
As an overthinker, I've found that my thoughts have the power to consume me if I let them. It's exhausting, to say the least. But over the years, I've discovered a tool that has helped me navigate the labyrinth of my mind: writing.
Writing has become my sanctuary, a place where I can process not only my thoughts but also my feelings. It's where I can untangle the messiness of my mind and make sense of the chaos within. But as much as writing has helped me, I've also come to realize that not everything needs to be shared immediately with others.
You see, I have a tendency to overcommunicate. I like to share every thought, every feeling, without filter or hesitation. But I've learned that not everyone is ready to receive such an overload of communication. I've been told I'm argumentative, and perhaps I have been at times. But deep down, I believe it stems from a desire to be understood, to connect with others on a deeper level.
As I've grown older and prioritized my peace, I've learned the importance of discernment in communication. Some things are better left unsaid, at least to the person directly involved. And that's where blogging comes in.
I've decided to start blogging as a way to process my internalized feelings and thoughts. Instead of sending long paragraph text messages (which I affectionately call "bibles") to explain how and why I feel a certain way, I'll write them out to myself first. This allows me the time to process, reflect, and distill my thoughts down to their essence before sharing them with others.
But blogging isn't just about self-expression; it's also about self-discovery. Like my dad used to say, I can ask, answer, defend, offend, and argue with myself on all the different thoughts and views I have on various subjects. It's a journey of introspection and growth, and I invite you to join me on it.
In summary, I'm starting this blog because it helps me find clarity amidst the chaos of my mind. And who knows, maybe someone out there can relate to what I have to say.
With love and introspection,
Paola